The Breakup Retreat is a structured 7-day immersive experience for men navigating heartbreak, divorce, or the end of a long-term relationship. Combining group workshops, one-on-one coaching, outdoor activities, and brotherhood circles, the retreat gives you practical tools to process your pain, rebuild your identity, and move forward with clarity and purpose.
This retreat is built specifically for men who are struggling after a breakup or divorce. You don't need to have hit rock bottom — whether you're in acute pain or just feel stuck and unlike yourself since the relationship ended, this retreat meets you where you are. No therapy background or prior experience required.
The Breakup Retreat is not therapy, though it is therapeutic. Our program is led by experienced coaches and facilitators who specialize in men's emotional development, identity work, and post-breakup recovery. Think of it as a guided reset — combining structured workshops, physical activity, and brotherhood to help you rebuild from the ground up.
Friends and family mean well, but they often give advice filtered through their own experiences or biases. At the retreat, you're surrounded by men going through the same thing, guided by professionals who understand the psychology of breakups. The combination of expert facilitation, peer support, and immersive activities creates breakthroughs that everyday conversations simply can't.
The Breakup Retreat is held in Southern California, offering a stunning desert and mountain landscape that provides the perfect backdrop for reflection, adventure, and renewal. The exact location details are shared upon booking confirmation.
Days are structured but not rigid. Mornings begin with movement and mindfulness, followed by group workshops on emotional intelligence, identity, and masculinity. Afternoons include outdoor activities and one-on-one coaching sessions. Evenings wind down with brotherhood circles and reflection time. Every day is designed to challenge, support, and restore you.
Activities range from guided hikes and fitness sessions to group coaching workshops, journaling exercises, and brotherhood circles. Depending on your package, you may also experience adventure excursions, private chef-prepared meals, and personalized one-on-one coaching throughout the week.
You're encouraged to be open, but you're never forced to share more than you're comfortable with. The retreat creates a safe, judgment-free environment. Many men find that once they see others being vulnerable, it becomes easier to open up naturally — and that's often where the biggest breakthroughs happen.
We'll send you a detailed packing list after booking. In general, bring comfortable clothes for outdoor activities, workout gear, a journal, and an open mind. All meals, accommodations, and program materials are provided. Leave the distractions at home — this week is about you.
While the days are structured, there's built-in downtime for rest, reflection, and personal time. We believe recovery needs space to breathe. You'll have time to journal, take a solo walk, or simply decompress between sessions.
The retreat runs for 7 full days and 6 nights. We offer three packages: Basic at $7,000/week, Standard at $10,500/week, and Premium at $14,000/week. Each package includes the full retreat program, meals, and accommodations — they differ in room type, coaching access, experiences, and post-retreat support.
All packages include the full 7-day retreat program, group coaching and workshops, daily fitness and outdoor activities, and meals. The Basic package includes shared accommodations and a post-retreat resource library. Standard adds a private room, two 1-on-1 coaching sessions, and 30 days of post-retreat check-ins. Premium includes a private suite, unlimited 1-on-1 coaching, private chef and adventure excursions, and one year of alumni brotherhood access.
Yes, we understand this is a significant investment in yourself. We offer flexible payment plans that allow you to split the cost into manageable installments. Contact us to discuss the options that work best for your situation.
The retreat is held in Southern California. Most attendees fly into a nearby airport, and we provide detailed travel instructions and optional airport pickup coordination upon booking. Exact location details are shared once your spot is confirmed.
We understand that plans can change. We offer a full refund if you cancel more than 30 days before the retreat start date. Cancellations within 30 days may be eligible for a partial refund or credit toward a future retreat. Please contact us directly to discuss your specific circumstances.
Absolutely. Depending on your package, post-retreat support ranges from access to a resource library (Basic), to 30 days of check-in calls with your coach (Standard), to a full year of alumni brotherhood access with ongoing community and support (Premium). We believe lasting change requires follow-through, and we're committed to being there for you beyond the retreat.
The Alumni Brotherhood is a private community of men who have completed the Breakup Retreat. It's a space for ongoing connection, accountability, and support as you continue your growth journey. Members share wins, challenges, and advice — because healing doesn't stop when the retreat ends.
Yes, and many men do. Each retreat experience is different because you're different each time you come. Returning alumni often report even deeper breakthroughs on subsequent visits. We offer special alumni pricing for repeat attendees.
That's entirely up to you, but most men form lasting bonds during the retreat. The shared vulnerability and intense experience creates a brotherhood that extends well beyond the week. Many past attendees stay in regular contact and continue to support each other's growth for years afterward.
If you're asking this question, you're probably ready. You don't need to be in crisis — you just need to be willing to show up and do the work. Whether your breakup was recent or you've been stuck for months, the retreat is designed to meet you exactly where you are and help you move forward.
A structured path to healing, brotherhood, and purpose — built for men.
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